RUNNING AWAY FROM THE SOLUTION NEVER HAS BEEN A GOOD DECISION
Its always worse the situation. You must have seen many people try to avoid solving the question but later it became more difficult to face it again. Running away and getting married was India's famous act and many of us have done that but in the end, it had been difficult to survive. Our relatives will not think a good about it and their support cuts immediately. You will have fewer relatives to come to your home.
TO SURVIVE IN ANY RELATION, YOU MUST HAVE MANY RELATIVES
In life, everyone is important, let it be your neighbours, colleagues or your enemy. It is nature's law. When you will run leaving your parent alone their bad wishes will never let you live life peaceful or if you are happy in your world, but then a thought of your parent will wake you up in the middle of the night.
THE MIND WILL DIVERT TO A NEGATIVE THOUGHT FOR OTHERS TOO
If you decided to run away, you and your mind will carry many negative thoughts with you for the lifetime. These negative power will start beating an emerging positive thought and life will keep continuing this way. It will gradually become dangerous in the future.
ALL KNOW AFTER THE MARRIAGE, LIFE CHANGES AND EVERYONE HAS TO FACE THE SAME INSTANCES
No one ever runs away from the problems and from the truth even if he or she born with a silver spoon. After the marriage, everyone passes through the same ups and down. There is no difference in rich and poor in terms of passing through life's events. So choosing a wise decision before you run out of the time while making the one is a great thing. Once the decision fails its promise then all ruined. You get frustrate and leads to suicide. Take a little longer over any decision implementation.
DECEIVE PARENT IS BIGGEST MISTAKE
If your parent does not know that you are getting married without their permission and you think it does not matter? It is totally incorrect. When you born, from that day they took care of you. They have seen many dreams for you than you did. They might have planned your wedding in a beautiful way and for that, he is earning from the first day you came to exist. So I think you should never let them down. Better switching to a long conversation and get the conclusion is a wise idea.
SITTING TOGETHER AND DISCUSS ALWAYS BRINGS THE SOLUTION
To any problem, there is a solution in this world. If you think that you can't live without him then I suggest you have a meeting with your parent over a dinner with good mood and discuss the solution. You can ask their suggestion and put down your benefits over this. Surely these will a great help. And always remember everything solves on this earth, but only you need to make the first move toward a positive thought in the thousands of negative ones.